Walls Between Us

From the beginning of human history, people have been divided by two powerful forces: religion and the pursuit of wealth. Again and again, humanity has reached for more—more power, more possessions, more control—often at the expense of others. This desire to possess more has too often led to exploitation, division, and injustice.

In many ways, this hunger for control and superiority lies at the heart of unrest and war. Yet beneath our differences, we are all flesh and blood, and no one is inherently greater than another. Although some are more fortunate and blessed with greater resources, our shared humanity remains the same. If those who have more were willing to share more, far fewer people would be living in poverty today.

Scripture teaches that the love of money is the root of all evil. The deeper truth is that greed—not money itself—corrupts the heart and distorts our relationships with others.

Throughout history, nations have gone to war over the desire to control others’ beliefs or resources. Stronger, better-equipped countries sought to dominate smaller, more vulnerable neighbors.

The Bible, however, calls us to live differently. It teaches us to love our neighbors, not covet what they have, and care for those in need. We are often reminded that the world already has enough resources to combat poverty, yet greed and division keep us from sharing what we have been given.

Recently, I had the opportunity to speak with a local minister, the pastor of a small church, about the possibility of donating space for local artists to use as an incubator for Christian art. My hope was to reach people who might not otherwise step into a church and introduce them to the love of Christ in a way that felt creative, welcoming, and genuine.

He acknowledged that the idea was intriguing, but he also expressed concern that artists might be more susceptible to behavior considered un-Christian. That conversation led me to reflect on the barriers we place between ourselves and people who are different from us. If we are truly called to embody God’s love, how can we do so while keeping our distance?

The Bible warns against judgment, and that reminder challenges us to ask whether our purpose is to separate ourselves from others or to extend compassion and grace. Perhaps the greater calling is not to build more walls between us, but to tear them down so that love, mercy, compassion, and understanding can reach those who need them most.

What the Cemetery Taught Me About Life

Sixty-something and feeling lost. After many years of doing various things satisfactorily, I never felt truly fulfilled. I just went through the motions, living in a state of mediocrity. My latest job was at a funeral home and cemetery, where I witnessed people being laid to rest at all ages, some with full lives and others with none. Their final resting place seemed to have no impact on the relentless march of life. That’s what life is all about—we come, and we must go. After a few generations, we become lost to time.

Seeing this every day made me realize that life doesn’t stop for a second after we leave this earth. It’s a fickle thing, and we never know how much time we have. As Oprah once said, our responsibility is to discover our purpose on this earth and use it to make a difference. So, we should all strive to live fulfilling lives, regardless of what we find ourselves doing.

I am grateful for each day I am given, but it also means it’s one day closer to the end of life that I know. I need to make the most of it and not just exist. I would hate to reach my last days and not have been fulfilled by life.

Fear has always held me back. According to the Bible, fear is a result of a lack of faith. I identify as a Christian, but I’ve always been afraid to take the plunge into the unknown. In the past, with my parents’ help, I purchased a business, but unfortunately, it had to close after a year. Partly, it was because I didn’t do enough research, and new government regulations made it difficult to continue the business. In my opinion, a lot of my parents’ hard-earned money was lost. In my mind, I thought and still think that business wasn’t my thing, but I did enjoy helping my customers.

The bottom line is that I haven’t been fulfilled, but I’m afraid to take the leap because of fear and past failures. Should I continue to exist until I reach the end of life, not doing what I was created to do? Or should I take the leap of faith? 

I know a reasonable and safe course of action would be to continue working until I discover my true passion.  But after I spent a considerable amount of time praying, I heard confirmation in my spirit. Additionally, reading the Bible and listening to ministers of the Word, it is impossible to please God without faith. I felt compelled to put the Lord to the test. After months of struggling with the enemy, who threatened me with homelessness, sickness, and even suicidal thoughts, I could no longer ignore the call from God to do more with my life. I leapt without a parachute, putting my life and faith to the ultimate test. Although I am uncertain about the next steps, I hold onto the promise that He will never leave me or forsake me.

During this time, I have been growing closer to God, creating my art, practicing drawing and watercolor every day, and reading and drawing inspiration from great people and artists. Not unlike many individuals in the Bible, such as Elijah, who listened to God and was never left wanting, I may not be an exceptionally good Christian, but I strive to emulate their example.

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Nurturing Unique Talents in Children

Welcome to the world, little man. You are a miracle of God, bringing two families together and creating a precious baby boy. With all the resources and aspirations to make a difference in the world, what an opportunity it is to be born into a middle-class family in the 60s, a time of unprecedented growth and limitless possibilities.

Parents want the best for you, and the opportunities are endless. All you need to do is apply yourself and follow your parents’ guidance, as they know best.

However, life is not always easy, and no one asked or tried to discover your natural talents or strengths. As Rumi wisely said, children are gifts given to parents to be custodians, but they are not theirs to possess. Each child has their own unique path and purpose on earth. Parents should nurture their natural abilities, and they will discover their reason for living.

Unfortunately, if these skills are not nurtured and children are forced or coerced into areas that do not bring them fulfillment or where they cannot excel, not every child is destined to become a lawyer, doctor, or Indian chief. These children may end up feeling depressed and unhappy, seeking joy in all the wrong places.

Some children, like me, develop low self-esteem and never feel good enough. They perceive themselves as complete failures, even with evidence of their achievements, yet they are unable to recognize their worth.

When parents place high expectations on their children in the hope of giving them the best, it can lead to disappointment and pain for both the parent and the child.

Overcoming the feeling of not being worthy is a challenging task. Life has a way of reflecting our self-perception. Every setback reinforces negative self-talk, while successes are met with disbelief. Even compliments are dismissed as mere niceties rather than genuine recognition.

Negative self-talk and low self-esteem are constant companions, but I’ve discovered that leaning on God makes them bearable. I know that the Lord doesn’t make mistakes, and if He still needs me on this earth, I continue to rise each morning with gratitude and an expectation to make a difference, both in small and significant ways. I listen to the still small voice for guidance, courage, and faith to follow His direction. God is good.

Be your BEST self

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Why are we Here? Why do we exist? Most of us, if we are lucky, will live for at least seventy years. some will figure out why reasonably quickly; some never do. If you look at the statistics, you will find that the people who figure it out and do something to bring it to past live a happier and more satisfying life.

The other night I have the distinct pleasure of meeting Yvette Norwood Tiger and her husband at her jazz performance at the famed Ball and Chain in the Historic Downtown Miami. This club has been there since 1935 and has seen many notable jazz and blues artists.

Ms. Norwood-Tiger has a voice that reminds me of Ella Fitzgerald or Billie Holiday and she sings in many different languages. I went to her website and saw that she has tour dates not only in Florida but she will be going on a European tour. When she comes to your city, go see her; she is phenomenal.

If you are privileged to see her show, she usually will share her testimony that many years ago, she was diagnosed with a brain tumor, and the doctors did not expect her to survive. If she did, she would not likely be able to sing or even listen to music again. But along with Gods grace and some good doctors, she survived and has become an international Singer.

I got the chance to chat with her between sets.  Yvette was born with this ability to sing, but because of fear, she never sang publicly. In fact, neither her mother nor father heard her sing until just before the end of their life. She hid her talent from everyone even to those closest to her. I was flabbergasted because to see her on stage, it’s like she was transported to her happy place. It is like this is where she was born to be.

After further probing, I found out that she is an introvert, but after being to death’s door and after being given a chance at life, she decided to use her talent, her GOD given ability, the reason for her existence. With the Lord’s help, she conquered her fear, and now it is her passion.

We are all guilty. we all let fear or some other excuses to hold us back stop us from being our very best self.  We get an unknown amount of years to make a difference. Are you satisfied with the years you have used? Make a difference today! Don’t wait for the perfect time.

The ideal time will never come.

A New Journey

I have said it before many times LIFE IS SHORT, ENJOY THE JOURNEY. It has been a dream of mine for some time and now, a goal….  To travel the United States in a  Travel Trailer.

I decided to document my journey starting from today.

I was listening to a preacher, and he spoke about the Faith of Bartimaeus, a blind man who pursued Jesus for healing. Bartimaeus had stepped out with Blind Faith literally.

This resonated with me, and confirms that HE wants me to proceed with this endeavor! And it will take Blind Faith to see this one through.

So with that, I proceed, and I will try to listen to My Lord’s direction.

After thinking about the best way to travel, but staying open to the Lord to change and direct all aspects of this Journey, but my vision is to buy a 4 wheel drive type tow vehicle and travel trailer. This combination should be efficient and economical to transport.

Outdoor Photography is one of my passions and creating beautiful images. I will be traveling the country finding beautiful Images that inspire, uplift, motivate and bring peace to individuals.

It is my sincere belief that we all are placed here for a reason, and each one of us has a passion, unfortunately, not all of us are brave enough to follow our bliss.

It is so easy to come up with excuses why something cannot be done. Excuses hold us back from using our God-given potential. Get rid of the excuses in your head, Just Do It!

Ok Before the trip starts what will I  need?

  • A way to generate income on the road.
  • A reliable tow vehicle like an SUV that will be able to pull a trailer
  • A Travel Trailer

What about this current job do you like?

  • Meeting new people every day and helping clients create their printing/publishing ideas or projects.
  • Editing images

What are my personality traits? (the way I see it)

Empathy, caring, upbeat, and positivity.

It is also my belief that everything that happens to us good and bad will be used to accomplish your goals. Our experiences will mold us and shape us if we allow the Lord or the divine to use it for good.

Be Open

Be Flexible

Be Positive

Be Brave

Be Confident

And have Faith Knowing the Lord or the Divine will Come to meet you where we are!

Enjoy The Journey.

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I Surrender All

All to Jesus I Surrender……..

On Sunday I sing this Hymn, But do I really mean it.

Do I surrender my life, my finances, my plans, my dreams…everything.

Doing these three things helps me give Him my All…..

Stepping out in Faith……… I must admit that sometimes it is hard to do because I have to give up the driver’s seat but it gets easier the more I do it because I can see how amazing God is and he takes me in directions I would never imagine.

Stopping to Listen to the still small voice……….. I hear what the Lord put on my heart and what He wants to tell me. It took me a while to know when He speaks and to trust in what I heard. Having that connection is very reassuring and I get a lot of comfort and peace knowing He is always there.

Submerging myself in his Word…………. Finding time to Read the Bible daily is difficult for me and many people I know…. making time to learn how God thinks to Know what is holy and acceptable to Him is necessary for spiritual growth.

Sharing my time and resources to help others…………… I try to be Gods hands on earth and each of us can be in our small way. When I do this I am so blessed knowing I am helping others.

Let’s not get it twisted, I am not perfect, I sin, I don’t do everything I should, I fail, I lose my peace…..

But as they say……. I am not what I should be but Thank God I am not what I use to be…….

Blessings Always